points to ponder

I was pleasantly surprised this afternoon at Sizzler's restaurant, when Daddy said to me that I was a good mother. His comments baffled and amused me; I never expected praise from an arrogant man like him!
He told me that during my pregnancy, my body was so bloated and my nose so swollen that he could hardly recognize me... what would entice a person so conscious with her looks to undergo that transformation not once but twice?
I really hated seeing that "look" when I saw myself in the mirror. Why do other pregnant mums look fabulous but not me?!? Anyway, I have done my duty. I have a girl and a boy. Which make up the Chinese word "Good" 好.
Today, I was very pleased that Daddy said something nice about me. He once told me that getting scolded by him was a blessing, since it showed he cared enough. I do not agree with this "old school of thought". It is always far more morale-boosting to receive words of encouragement.
But one thing I do like about him is that I can talk to him heart to heart, even though we had many bad past experiences. I truly hope that past is over.
We have to look back for lessons but always forward for hope and a better future. I will do my utmost to make sure his stay here for the next few days before he flies off to Indonesia nice and peaceful. And keep my fingers crossed that the kids will play their parts too...


1 Comments:
It sounds like you are very wise and are going to do things better than your dad did. :-)
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